February Habit: Food Journal and a January Habit Recap

+ Yay! It’s a new month which means a new monthly habit and a recap of last month’s. These monthly experiments help me build healthy habits, break unhealthy ones or just learn more about myself so I can figure out what’s really essential!

Something I've learned is that it’s easier to make a change if you’re aware of and measuring your actions surrounding it. Getting out of debt? Record where all of your money goes. Getting in shape? Track your workouts and progress. The act of recording keeps you on task and creates some accountability while the change over time, even if slow, helps keep you motivated.

The same is true for food and dieting. When trying to lose weight, keeping a food journal has been shown to not only double the amount of weight loss but also to help keep it off. This awareness is huge in shifting habits. It’s harder to eat a second dessert if you know you're going to record it.

The goal this month is a little different for us. This is at Greg's request. He wants to experiment with keeping a food journal. We don’t have an ideal outcome and are mostly curious to see what comes up. Will this added accountability cause any shifts? Will we eat differently if we have to write everything down? Perhaps we’ll make a discovery a week or two in and design a goal then?

Since Greg usually puts up with my silly or even selfish monthly experiments, I’m joining in. I don’t have a great relationship with food diaries as my experience has been limited to strict elimination diets and gestational diabetes. Will I feel different about it if I’m not reporting to doctors? Honestly, I’ve been putting so much energy into Peanut’s solid food that a little effort into my diet might be nice. And I love meal planning

Are you down for Food Journal February? What if this habit is more useful than most diet rules? I would take journaling over low-carb any day ;)

Reflections on our January Habit: Slow the F Down:
Overall, life is feeling a bit more manageable these days. For the month of January, we intentionally created space by practicing a weekly Sabbath, leaving the weekends open, and postponing most classes and socializing.

At first, saying “No” and delaying events was a little awkward. There’s a voice that tells me we need to socialize! Community is so important! But I’m a better person when I have more alone time and intimate family time. I feel so much more engaged and present. We were more ourselves this month and were more aware when outings or groups wouldn't suit us. What a great feeling.

Things were of course still hectic on and off! We continued to struggle with getting enough sleep, plus there were outings, projects, protests, and general life with a baby.

Will life ever feel slow again? I'm accepting the transition into life with a child. Shockingly, I’m not as rested as I was with 12 hours of sleep a night while pregnant ;p I am fortunate to still have space in my life but now there’s a new normal. Hopefully, the lessons of this experiment will stick with us for a while. It seems like around here they are the key to having fewer harried days.

5 Steps to a Successful Habit Shift

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I write a lot about habits here, or experiments really, that help us learn what we can do with or without. Some of the experiments are small (Daily Gratitude November), some turn out to be huge (5 Things A Day) and the successful ones tend to have a few things in common.

We've had a very successful habit shift this month. You know we live in a paperless home but I believe digital clutter can weigh us down just as much. You see, we've been taking a lot of photos lately. A lot. There's this cute little thing in our world that we can't get enough of.

We have the intention of capturing and sharing at least one image every day for the first year of Peanut's life. This has led to thousands of unsorted photos sitting in a folder in our Dropbox account. Bummer! We would go through photos here and there but never really felt on top of them. Until this month! Here's what we've done and what tends to help a new habit stick around here:

5 STEPS TO A SUCCESSFUL HABIT SHIFT:
1. Be specific.
 The more concrete and actionable your habit is, the less energy is required to actually do it. We have a goal: to sort through the thousands of photos from the last nine months. If it goes well, we'll continue to sort through the backlog. To be specific, we defined sorting as: deleting bad photos (so important!); transferring the rest to folders (we sort by date); and choosing some to share with family or even print for frames or the baby book.

2. Start small. Commit to an easy daily task. We have thousands of photos to get through but we probably wouldn't be smiling at each other if we sat down to sort them all at once. Deciding to tackle just a few on a daily basis is much more manageable and, even more important, makes it easier to sit down and start!

3. Find a trigger. It can be really helpful to have an existing routine or habit to piggyback off of. Our morning and evening routines are pretty solid but we didn't want to add more time to them. I noticed that after putting Peanut to sleep, I spend 12 minutes pumping milk and have that time that I can focus on another activity. The pumping has to happen or we won't have milk when I go out so it's a great routine to connect with our photo sorting.

4. Time box. It really helps to know that this task isn't going to go on forever. All we have to do is start and it will be over very quickly. (This is more important for annoying habits and not super cute ones like this ;) After saying goodnight to Peanut, I set up to pump and we spend 12, and only 12, minutes sorting through photos. We usually get through a week's worth which means we're getting ahead! 

5. Have a simple system. We have folders set up so all we have to do is delete the bad ones as we scroll through Preview. At the end of 12 minutes, we place the remaining ones into folders and we're done!

++ And then we do it again tomorrow. It would be okay if we had to miss a day but we would work really hard to not miss two. If we miss two or feel that the habit is too difficult to keep, we would look at what's not working and make some adjustments.

Are you interested in making small life changes? I'd love to know what habits you're trying to shift and what's working for you!!

+ When it comes to productivity, I've been inspired by a number of sources. If you're interested in diving deeper into habit stickiness, check out Zen Habits and Asian Efficiency