2015 Habit Superlatives

As the end of the year is approaching, I wanted to take a little time to reflect on the monthly experiments I/we did in 2015. And I thought it would be fun to review them as a superlatives list! 

Most Fun to Repeat: December 2014 Habit: Advent (the recap)
It takes a little work up front but is so joyful to carry out. We're already repeating it!


Biggest Success: No Spending January (the recap)
Some of the tactics have really stuck with me and we saved about $700! This is a great thing to repeat once a year or whenever we're feeling a tight wallet.


Biggest Contributor to Happiness: Love Note February (the original post)
I was smiling most of February. The happiness I felt came from a combination of feeling gratitude and then actually sharing how I felt to and about people. <3


Stickiest (or Longest Lasting): Mornings March (the recap)
I continue to do my Morning Routine most days! Every once in a while, I'll get out of the habit, feel the shift, and remember to get back to it. I'm more productive and calm with it and a little scattered without. (+ Tips on Creating a Morning Routine)

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Most Eh: Asana April (the recap)
I just didn't notice any changes. It was one of the simplest and stickiest for Greg though! 


Biggest Failure: Mindful Eating May (the recap)
Even though I logged as being pretty successful at this, I'm just not a mindful eater. I'm a mindful meal planner, pay attention to portions and try to shop for good quality food but I almost always wait too long to eat so this habit just isn't for me. (For the record, when Greg was successful at Mindful Eating, he lost the most weight including over the holidays!)


Biggest Bang for the Buck: June Habit: Mindful Drinking! (the recap)
This habit, especially tracking and maintaining water consumption, was the simplest way to physically feel good. I really think I had a little spring in my step. My illness happened to flare up so it wasn't the best month. It was simple though and I should do it again!


Most Grounding: Journaling July (the recap)
I'd like to say I've continued this habit because it is and was great. I record intentions and gratitudes as a part of my Morning Routine so that's something. It is helpful to know that I have this tool in my box when I feel the need for it. (Reminder that I used a notebook and Greg journaled digitally. He had a much harder time sticking with it.)


Best for the Introvert in Me: August: In Bed by 10 (the recap)
I love going to bed early! I was pretty anti-social but felt so content at the same time. :)


Most Potential: 5 Things A Day
We no longer feel the need to do this habit but it's so helpful for anyone feeling the need to clear a little space. I have a feeling we'll have a repeat month or two when the baby starts to accumulate all that stuff.


+ I'm not including my habits from September through November but I wanted to mention them. My life completely stopped in mid-August due to morning sickness...
Our September Habit: No Drinking was obviously very successful for me. I had set the goal before finding out I was pregnant so on top of all the other ways my lifestyle changed, this wasn't a big deal. Greg was a little more challenged by the task but he did really well! I think he forgot once or twice and had some of an offered drink but that was it. He was very patient that month ;)
My plan for October was to do Walktober, or adding a 30-minute walk daily. I would have loved to complete this. I did end up doing it about twice a week with help but mostly I spent the month on the bathroom floor. (If you have a wearable like a FitBit or use the Health app on your phone, this goal could also be to meet those 10,000 steps!)
November was going to be No-Car-vember which we've actually done before. I wanted to walk and take buses as much as possible to challenge my reliance on a car. Without trying, I was pretty successful because I rarely left the house but when I did, comfort was more important to me than... well, anything!

Those were my monthly experiments for 2015! I learned some new skills and a lot about myself. These small challenges are a great way to grow. I'm starting to plan some ideas for 2016, any thoughts?

December Habit: Advent

+ Yay! It’s the last post of the month which means a new monthly habit and a recap of last month’s. Instead of an even longer post, I'll be back later with thoughts on my habits from October and November. These monthly experiments help me build healthy habits, break unhealthy ones or just learn more about myself so I can figure out what’s really essential!

I'm slowly getting back to "normal" life and so excited to reinstate my monthly experiments. I love love our December Habit: an Experience Advent Calendar! A day or two after Thanksgiving, we pull out our two boxes of winter holiday stuff including lights, wreaths and ornaments. I start to think through my ideas and intentions for the season. 

December Habit: Experience Advent Calendar
For the month of December, we like to do a festive little something every day to help celebrate and be present with the season. This is our third year doing something similar and it makes the holiday season much merrier with less stress. We started our Advent Calendar the Sunday after Thanksgiving this year but December 1st also works! 

Here's the list we start with to help give you some ideas but the more personal, the better:

GIFTS:
Make a list for Santa (or our family): Done!
Start Christmas shopping
Wrap our gifts (see Lean Wrapping)
Open our stockings (My grandmother insists on Christmas Eve :)

DECOR:
Hang the lights!
Tree shopping
Decorate the tree
Hang mistletoe and enjoy ;)

FOOD & DRINK:
Make Alton Brown's Eggnog (and use the leftovers for Baked French Toast)
Enjoy the Apple Cider/Scotch cocktail (or the Olive Oil one) at Third Rail
Make or eat latkes at a Hanukkah party
Humphry Slocombe Hot Toddy Sundae!
Make Chex Mix (my favorite holiday snack)
Make Scott Beattie's Hot Buttered Rum or homemade Baileys
Try the Douglas Fir Eau de Vie at Absinthe
Try the Burritt Tavern Hanukkah menu
Make Greg's Grandma's Bee Hive Cookies
Out for a fancy hot chocolate

ACTIVITIES IN:
Create and share a Spotify holiday playlist (I'll share mine soon!)
Watch Diehard (my fave Christmas movie)
Watch an old Christmas movie like A Christmas Carol or the original How the Grinch Stole Christmas
Read The Night Before Christmas or The Polar Express
Start a Christmas puzzle (this years)
Watch the SNL Christmas Special
Watch A Charlie Brown Christmas
Make Star Wars snow flakes

ACTIVITIES OUT:
Go to a Holiday Party
Watch a new Christmas movie like The Night Before or A Very Murray Christmas (on Netflix)
Visit the Remodelista Holiday Market: Dec 12 10-5, Dec 13 11-3 at Heath Ceramics
Take a class at 18 Reasons like the Gingerbread House Workshop or Cognac Tasting
Try a new red lipstick, because if not now, when?
Go to a holiday event at the Symphony like A Charlie Brown Christmas - Live
Volunteer wrapping gifts or at a food bank (Greg likes to teach kids to code ;)
Go see a Christmas concert
Go see the decorations (and kittens?) in Union Square
Enjoy the lights and a holiday excursion on a train like this one
Donate to a toy drive
Go to the snow or find indoor snow!

Some thoughts to help you create your own Experience Advent Calendar:
+ Sit down and list out everything you want to get done, punctuated with many fun activities.
+ Schedule away. Start to add bigger activities to your calendar. (I'm much more likely to go to UPS and ship gifts if it's time blocked on my calendar.) Have extras and simpler options available for busy nights.
+ Allow room to add last-minute invites!
+ Remember why you're doing this. Enjoy the activities and be present while doing them. You don't have to do any of this... focus on what's fun for you and not what you dread!

+ I organize all of this in Asana (my to-do list app) and my calendar. It's paperless and works for our family. But it's also fun to have physical items to open and I'm sure we'll shift that way when the kid gets old enough ;)

++ If you'd like more help slowing down for the holiday season, look into Courtney Carver's 31 Days of Gifts You So Deserve 2015. It's a meaningful "advent calendar in your inbox", reminding you to make room for yourself and enjoy.

Happy December!! <3